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TBD is two years and eight months old, and has lived in this house for over half that time.

And now, suddenly, has that gangling older-toddler look. With this comes more activity/energy and longer attention spans. Imaginative play has overtaken reading as an activity, timewise. The toy kitchen (the big Hanukkah gift) was a big hit, getting several play sessions a day -- playing with trucks is second place (and that's sometimes combined with cooking, heh). How extensively play relates to things going on in daily life is something of an eye-opener -- we knew it happened, but it's practically everything at this point. The first future career to be announced was "I going to be firefighter!" -- others include driver of a dump drunk, doctor, driver of a train, and a grown-up. Basic emotions (happy, mad, sad) can be identified when felt, and the proximate cause sometimes described, with prompting.

Another seasonal gift, a picture book of English and Mandarin nursery rhymes, immediately went into high rotation, with songs from both languages being requested. Things related to China are of strong interest, especially people or animals there. (Time to collect a couple coffee-table photobooks.)

Speaking of English, there's been more talking talking, of course, with more attempts (with adorable fumbling for words) at full sentences. Some pronunciations remain unclear -- the newest hard-to-distinguish pair being "my"/"Mommy," where the latter's sometimes rendered as "m'y" -- but others improve. "You" remains a name for self, as well as a pronoun for someone being addressed, but uses of personal name to mean self have shown up (along with "I"/"my" as first-person pronoun). Wrestling with idioms and abstractions gave the most amusement:

After playing "Twinkle, Twinkle" and "Row, Row, Row" on an ocarina and showing TBD how to blow into it,* then playing them again, I play another song:
TBD: *sitting up startled* "'Sing Roo'?"
Me: *nodding while still playing*
TBD: *wide-eyed* *taps ocarina* "That['s] in there too?"

When told about picking me up after work:
TBD: "Daddy too heavy?"

As we start driving to grandparents:
Janni: "Let's hit the road!"
TBD: "Owie?"

(Surely I jotted down more? Apparently not.)

Said Christmas visit with grandparents went very well -- TBD especially loves grandpa ("Baba," which is "Daddy" in Mandarin, to everyone's amusement), but now sometimes follows grandma ("Mama," or "Mommy" in Mandarin, to everyone's confusion) around the house and gives her spontaneous hugs. We again took two days driving there, but given TBD's increased endurance in the car-seat we made it all the way home in one, spending 10 hours on the road -- though it took promising we'd see our cats and a visit to the local Children's Museum to get over the disappointment (!) of not staying in a hotel.

More and more singing as well. TBD was surprised we knew "Jingle Bells," since we'd never sang it, but greatly enjoys singing it with us (favorite part: shouting out "HEY!"). Little songs get made up, mostly sung to self, and songs on random topics get requested of us. Janni is excellent at improvising at length. Much better than I am.

So it goes. May the wintertide holidays have been good to you all.


* FWIW, it is completely my own fault that I need to replace my ocarinas. TBD handles them with all the care due to breakable ceramic ("glass," which makes owie shards). I just need to learn to put them in jacket pockets that close.

---L.

Subject quote from "Spring View," Du Fu (tr. Mark Alexander).

Date: 29 December 2015 04:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sartorias.livejournal.com
Owie! That is so adorable!!!

Date: 29 December 2015 04:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] steepholm.livejournal.com
I love this. Please do try to keep up the jotting of adorable (and linguistically instructive) expressions. My father did this with me and my brother, and we still treasure the notebook. (Actually, one of the very first entries in this journal was devoted to it (http://steepholm.livejournal.com/1466.html).)

Date: 29 December 2015 07:32 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] sovay
TBD: *wide-eyed* *taps ocarina* "That['s] in there too?"

That's wonderful. Thank you for sharing these stories. Best of luck with the ocarinas!

Date: 29 December 2015 07:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sartorias.livejournal.com
Owwwww! Want to seeeeee! (Next time I get to go to Horse Camp, I hope)

Date: 29 December 2015 10:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sartorias.livejournal.com
That I don't know, alas.

Date: 30 December 2015 04:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] asakiyume.livejournal.com
So glad for this update. Three cheers for the three of you! I'm impressed by Janni's songs (and TBD's)

Date: 30 December 2015 06:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thistleingrey.livejournal.com
:D +1 keeping up the jottings as feasible; I no longer remember some of the earlier ones that I've recorded, and it's neat to see the similarities and differences across, say, three years of change. Interested by the spontaneous singing: for my child it's a marker of relaxed normalcy, in that it took several hours of not having her grandmother around during our recent trip for the singing to resume. :/ Child is better at improvising on a theme than I am, definitely, though she also cares less for metrical considerations.

"Mama" in Korean = what one called the queen in Joseon, or informally a term for an older female member of the community. I've no idea whether the latter is borrowed sinitically or convergent/coincident phonetically.

Date: 31 December 2015 02:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] oracne.livejournal.com
I love these updates. Have just finished a day in which I visited with five assorted great-nieces and -nephews in different families.

Date: 31 December 2015 03:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] asakiyume.livejournal.com
In or away from houses definitely covers the bases :-)

Date: 31 December 2015 07:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] asakiyume.livejournal.com
Ooh, I think I've memorized some of the key lyrics already ;-)

Date: 3 January 2016 05:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thistleingrey.livejournal.com
I don't know more than Wiktionary (https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/%E5%AA%BD%E5%AA%BD). The connection with smallpox is (unrelated yet) intriguing---there are shamanistic and folkloric texts about smallpox that call it "honored visitor," sonnim. One "ma" (https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/%E5%AA%BD) appears also to have semantic heft.

Date: 3 January 2016 05:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thistleingrey.livejournal.com
Heh, it seems that I am doomed to leave an unreasonably high percentage of spam comments in your LJ. Sorry. (Links are nice, sometimes.)

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